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Martial Arts CHARACTER And the Universal Law of Interdependence - The Keys to Life Mastery, Key #2
Author: Jeffrey Miller
Date Posted: May 04, 2006
In the philosophical teachings which form the foundation for the
Ninja Warrior's lifeways, there is a principle known as the 'law
of interdependence.' This so-called 'law' is not a must-do rule
which one must follow, nor is it to be confused with dependence
or co-dependence as it is seen today where one or more individuals
who cannot or choose not to provide for themselves, lean on and
'depend' on the work and resources of another for the fulfillment
of their needs. Rather, the law of interdependence is something
that is to be recognized as a basic 'truth' in the world.
Much like the law of gravity or cause and effect, it is something
that is 'going-on,' always, regardless of whether we 'believe' in
it or not. In fact, contrary to our need to believe that we are
what we are, this principle in action shows us that we are more
like others than we know.
Unlike the law of gravity, however, which is difficult to understand
and explain; interdependence is relatively easy to explain. Let's
use a simple analogy to understand this 'goings-on.' We'll use something
simple, like a Whopper. No, I'm not being paid to endorse a food
franchise and you can feel free to substitute this item for any
of a thousand others. But, for our purposes, it will do.
Now, most people would agree to the connection between themselves
and all of the individuals working in the restaurant at the moment
you visited and placed your order for the sandwich. Someone took
your order; another was busy making the product; and others made
sure it found its way to a tray or bag and ultimately into your
hand. In this simple view, there is an interdependent connection
between you - the person who 'wants' the sandwich, and those who
are making sure that you get it.
Of course, seen from the viewpoint of any worker, they are mutually
dependent on you, and many others throughout a day, wanting and
willing to pay for a sandwich so that they can get a paycheck at
the end of the week. For you: no restaurant - no sandwich. For them:
no customers, no restaurant, no paycheck.
But, in the words of the enigmatic guru "Morphius" from the popular
movie, "The Matrix", if you really want to see "how deep the rabbit
hole goes," we can look much more closely at that simple sandwich.
Let's begin with the wrapper. It wasn't made there at the restaurant.
It was delivered, probably by truck. Which means what? Well, where
do you want to start? Driver? Truck dealership who sold it to Burger
King? Truck manufacturer? Trailer manufacturer? Get the idea?
For now, let's stay with the driver and truck remaining associated
with the restaurant. But, already we're talking about more than
just the employees working in the restaurant, aren't we. Many, if
not all of them have families which will benefit from their paycheck
in some way just as the company is benefiting from their desire
or willingness to do the job they're doing.
The wrapper itself is paper which now extends our connection to
people working in the logging and paper production industries and
their families. The ink does the same along those lines; and so
on throughout the rest of the parts of the sandwich like the burger,
vegetables, and so on.
"What's the point?", I can hear you asking. "How does this relate
to personal development, martial arts, self-defense or my life?"
After all, aren't we different than a sandwich?
I don't think it's the answer that will drive the point home as
much as a question: If a burger can be made up of the materials,
effort, energy, intention and connections of so many that it almost
touches the lives of every other person on the planet - how can
we believe that we, as so-called 'individuals,' can be any different?
After all, haven't each one of us been influenced, positively or
negatively, by other people, places, and situations that caused
us to believe, act, and engage the world the way we do?
Can you imagine how different you would be had those influences
been different or not there at all? Just think about what motivated
you to take up martial arts training. Regardless of whether it was
for self-defense, the allure of Asian culture, or soemthing else
- you were first exposed to those 'other things' - giving you your
reason to take up the arts. The saying goes, "no (wo)man is an island,"
and it's true. No matter how much we would like to be an 'individual,'
we are nonetheless, tied to every other human being on the face
of the planet - if by no other means than the water we drink and
the air we breath. The law of interdependence teaches us to recognize
the value in all things and to treat everything as though it were
'me.' Only then can one be sure that we are not acting in an egotistical,
self-serving way that will harm, alienate, or hinder ourselves or
others.
What does this have to do with our training? It is the person who
recognizes and acts knowing that this is true who builds his or
her world rather than isolating themselves as important and in contrast
with everything and everyone else that is seen as 'obviously' of
lesser value. It is the ego who must be "right" and "righteous"
that needs to attack others - to fight for 'right.'
There is an old saying that goes: "the truest measure of a person's
character is in the way he or she treats those least important to
them." Once we understand, and can 'see', how our every thought,
word, and action acts upon the world, we can take control of the
process and decide to build a character that takes responsibility
for the way it affects others. No longer will we act out of a state
of disconnection and isolation, but move purposefully through our
world with compassion and disciplined action.
We have a choice. We can be 'nice' to others because it's proper
manners to do so, because we expect to get something from them,
or because we have to live with them. Or, we can treat others with
respect and honor because we recognize that we are already connected
to them in some way already.
About The Author
Jeffrey M. Miller is the founder and master instructor of Warrior
Concepts International. A senior teacher in the Japanese warrior
art of Ninjutsu, he specializes in teaching the ancient ways of
self-protection and personal development lessons in a way that is
easily understood and put to use by modern Western students and
corporate clients. Through their martial arts training, his students
and clients learn proven, time-tested lessons designed to help them
create the life they've always dreamed of living, and the skills
necessary for protecting that life from anything that might threaten
it. To learn more about life
skills and other subjects related to the martial arts, self-defense,
personal development & self-improvement, visit his website at http://www.warrior-concepts-online.com
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Article Source: JKD Street Combat
- online collection of Ninjutsu articles.
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